We all have pet peeves. We experience so many things in our daily lives that really irritate us and make us feel angry. And it’s okay too, we can’t be happy from everything, it’s a human thing. I try to be happy and please everybody around me, I don’t like to let them know even if I don’t like what they are doing. But I’m the kind of person who gets irritated easily by anything. My siblings always took advantage of this fact and never leave a chance to annoy me. But in today’s post, I’m gonna share my biggest pet peeves, which I hate.
When people try to make others feel down
You know those people who always show off like they are the best and others are nothing in front of them. People, who make fun of others, talk rubbish about someone’s skin color, height, or anything… I just hate them. I know we shouldn’t let these nonsense things affect us but when you do that too much to someone, it really leaves a bad impact on that person and you never know how hard it becomes for them to overcome it. I know my friend in 6th grade, she was a new student and some students in school made fun of her. I’m glad that she’s totally fine and a self-confident girl now but it took her 3 years to overcome her insecurity and to tackle everything.
People judging others
This is the one that irritates me the most. I hate it when people judge others without knowing a single thing about what they are talking about. You know people forget truth easily but they never forget about a rumor and literally believe in that. I meet these people almost every day since I’m a K-pop lover. “You don’t even understand what they are saying. Ugh, why these guys wear makeup? They look alike, how can you differentiate them? Don’t they have anything else to do?” – What I hear every day. These rubbish talks don’t affect me anymore because I’ve accepted that they can never understand what being different and cool is, but I hate it when they judge anyone without knowing a single thing about who they really are and what they do.
People who smoke in front of me
Okay, so that really makes me angry. First of all, I really don’t like the people even a bit who smoke, okay let them smoke on their own, but why smoking in front of others and make them feel like vomiting. I’m allergic to dust and smoke, I get a high headache because of these things and whenever I see someone smoking that affects me, I get so mad. To the people who do that, I can’t stop you from smoking but just to let you know that it’s dangerous for your health and when you smoke in front of others, they might not say this to you but you really annoy them by doing that.
People who spell my name incorrectly
No one would like to see people spelling his/her name incorrectly, right? It happens just too much with me. My name is Poorwa, but I can never expect that they would write it correctly and that’s what happens most of the time. It got the worst when I was in 10th grade, and they spelled my name incorrectly on my admit card for board exams. In India, 10th results mean the world for students, and just thinking that my name would be wrong in it, I felt so much pressure to run around my strict Principal’s office for a couple of weeks to correct my name on the admit card. I can tolerate it when it gets incorrect because of our all-time enemy- autocorrect but please, if you’re confused about how to spell someone’s name, it’s better to ask that person once.
People who cheat
Cheaters… Traitors… don’t come in front of me. When you can’t keep a promise then don’t do and also when you can’t do something honestly, just ignore it. I don’t have lots of friends in real life because I’ve got betrayed by many of my friends in the past so I’m with friends with the only people whom I can trust forever. I can write a long post on this topic, and maybe I will someday. I think we all dislike these people, don’t we?
I think I’ve written down all my anger in this post, now I’m feeling good.